The best part about moving, moving house, moving country, moving my life, has been my Fiance.
We have been living together in Mercer Pennsylvania for 3 months now. We had our engagement, Christmas, meeting his extended family, announcing the big news, visitors from Australia, New Years Eve house parties (the funnest!), visa and immigration applications, puzzles and board games, meeting my Massachusetts family, being domestic, setting up a wedding registry,Valentines day, Birthdays, Injuries (my pre-surgery hip is still grinding and clicking!), snow storms and blizzards, dinners with friends, watching his band recording an album (I love his friends!).
Through it all; He has been doting, loving, affectionate, understanding, and patient. He has been so many things and it has really left me speechless.
I have never had someone love me so unconditionally and be so open and honest with thoughts and feelings. Plus he likes my weird sense of humor and likes that I giggle a lot.
We can plan things with such ease. What we’re having for dinner, what we’re doing on the weekend, and most of all our wedding has been the easiest! It’s all about communication and honesty.
He constantly reminds me of what I truly believe in and love in myself and other people. This is because we know each other so well and we have great communication. Nothing is difficult, there is no effort that is not wanted to give. We love and respect the same, so everything we do is the best of the best because we treat each other how we want to be treated.
The most nerve wracking moment for me was when we flew to visit my faux-family in Massachusetts. I was expecting my Faux-Papa Bob to be a little overprotective and maybe do the whole Dad thing but he and my Faux-Papa-2 Paul, embraced Si, they adored him! They even offered him a key to the house..
During this trip of family meetings was when Ryan’s brother and his Dad allowed my fiance to take Ryan’s guitar (in a hard case) on a plane back to Pennsylvania to repair it. Even though I know my fiance’s work and he does this for a living and he is phenomenal at what he does, the sheer fact that this was Ryans most worldly possession and they handed it to my fiance with whole trust, made me want to cry in the best possible way. I loved Ryan as my closest friend who changed my life and I love Si as my soul mate and the only man on this planet to look me in the eye and see every fault and every success I have and love me for all of it.
So thank you Si, for being my everything <3